How to book: Your Helpful FAQ’s Guidelines to book

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✅4. Advance Booking

Ideally, reservations should be made at least one hour in advance.

On rare occasions, 30–45 minutes’ notice may still be manageable, but it will depend on my availability and the time of day.

The more notice you can provide, the better the chances that I will be available and able to accommodate you.

✅5. Phone Call Verification

Once we have exchanged text messages, I will politely ask you to give me a quick phone call—and you should be prepared for that.

Please do not tell me that you cannot make a brief 2–3 minute phone call because:

● You are at work

● You are driving

● You are with family or friends

● Your phone battery is low

● You are nervous

● You are busy doing something else

If you are too busy to make a quick phone call, then perhaps this is not the right time to be contacting me. Think of this as the final step before we confirm our meeting. It is your opportunity to introduce yourself, ask any questions, clarify any details, and ensure that we are both comfortable moving forward.

If you have questions that require a lengthy text exchange, please call me instead. I genuinely do not see a reason why a sincere person would refuse a quick conversation.

I am always polite, respectful, friendly, and easy to talk to on the phone.

✅6. Location Inquiries

I always make an effort to clearly indicate my dates and general location in my advertisements and on my website. This allows you to plan ahead and determine whether a meeting is realistic for you.

If this is your first time contacting me, please read this carefully:

Please do not ask for my exact location right away. General location is fine with me.

I will only provide my exact location once we have agreed to meet. Before discussing specific locations, there are other important details to establish first, such as:

● The donation

● The date and time of our meeting

● The length of the appointment

● Your schedule

● My availability

Why would we discuss an exact location if we haven’t even determined whether we are a good match or whether our schedules align?

Many inquiries go unanswered because the opening message is simply:

“Hey, where are you?”

or

“Hi, where are you staying?”

Instead of a proper introduction. I completely understand that location can be an important factor due to traffic, travel time, scheduling, and convenience. Those are all reasonable concerns.

If knowing my exact location is important to you before making plans, there is a very simple solution:

Call me, my dear. 😘

A quick conversation is often faster, easier, and far more effective than a long string of text messages.

❌1. Please do not contact me using any internet-based phone numbers, text app numbers, blocked numbers, unknown caller IDs, or any similar services. I do not respond to those types of numbers and will immediately block them. If you wish to contact me, please use a legitimate, identifiable phone number.

I understand that discretion is important, especially with the amount of scamming and fraudulent activity that exists today. I also respect your desire for privacy regarding this matter. However, using a fake internet number, text app number, blocked number, or unknown caller ID makes it difficult for me to determine your genuine intentions.

If your intentions are real, sincere, and respectful, I do not see a reason to conceal your identity behind an untraceable or questionable contact method. Please understand that I will never agree to meet anyone whose intentions I cannot reasonably verify. I believe you would likely feel the same way if you were in my position.

My personal safety is not negotiable, and I will not jeopardize it under any circumstances. While I respect your privacy, I also expect the same respect for my safety. I believe my safety is just as important as your privacy, and any communication moving forward should reflect that mutual understanding.

Based on my experience, internet-based numbers may have been acceptable in the past, but they have unfortunately been abused by too many time-wasters, non-serious inquiries, and people who fail to show up after making arrangements.

There have also been instances where individuals

 I previously declined attempted to contact me again using different numbers. In some cases, people have misrepresented themselves, pretending to be legitimate clients when they were not. Unfortunately, scams and deceptive behavior are realities that cannot be ignored.

Beyond that, there is always the possibility of encountering individuals with questionable intentions. My safety and security must come first, and I take that responsibility seriously.

For those reasons, I choose not to engage with contacts using internet numbers, text app numbers, blocked numbers, or unknown caller IDs. I simply do not consider the risk worthwhile. I hope you can respect my position, just as I respect your right to make your own choices regarding privacy.

COURSE OF ACTION

The best solution is to do your own research and exercise due diligence before meeting anyone. Take the time to thoroughly review any advertisement or profile. Ask yourself a few important questions:

• Does the person have multiple photos?
• Are there videos available?
• Are there reviews or references?
• Are they using a legitimate, identifiable phone number?
• Do they have a personal website or established online presence? (Although some genuine providers may choose not to have one.)
• Do the photos appear authentic, or do they seem too good to be true?
• Are there older photos available for comparison, as well as recent or updated photos and videos?

You may also consider performing a reverse image search to help determine whether the photos are genuine or have been copied from somewhere else.

Most importantly, be cautious if anyone asks for 

prepayment, deposits, gift cards, or any form of payment before meeting. These are common warning signs that should never be ignored.

Unfortunately, there are scammers who target inexperienced and vulnerable individuals. It is upsetting to see people lose their hard-earned money and suffer unnecessary stress because they trusted the wrong person. The best defense is to stay informed, remain vigilant, and trust your instincts when something does not feel right.

Never send money simply based on promises or excuses. Take your time, ask questions, verify information, and make decisions carefully. Scammers often avoid accountability by hiding behind anonymous contact methods and constantly changing numbers. Do not give them the opportunity to take advantage of you. Above all, do your own research, stay alert, and use good judgment.

If you are still uncertain about me—and there is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling cautious or nervous—there is a simple solution. If texting does not provide enough reassurance, a brief phone conversation can often help establish trust and clear up any concerns.

A quick phone call allows both parties to communicate directly, ask questions, and determine whether they feel comfortable moving forward. Sometimes a few minutes of genuine conversation can provide far more confidence than countless text messages.

I would be happy to speak with you if that would help put your mind at ease.

❌2. Please do not send one-line messages such as:

“Hey”
“Hi”
“Hello”

”Hru?”

These messages do not provide enough information for me to determine whether your inquiry is genuine or whether we would be a good fit.

Instead, please get straight to the point. Tell me how I can help you, the purpose of your message, a brief introduction about yourself, your preferred meeting time, and any other relevant details. Showing a little effort in your first message demonstrates that you are serious, respectful, and genuinely interested in meeting.

I value my time, and I’m sure you value yours as well. The more information you provide upfront, the faster and easier it is for both of us to determine whether we are a match.

I am not interested in endless text conversations unless your plan is to take me home, introduce me to your mother, and marry me. 😂 Otherwise, let’s keep things simple, direct, and efficient.

❌ 6. No Internet Numbers, Blocked Numbers, or Unknown Callers — Automatic Block

Once again, please do not contact me using internet-based numbers, text app numbers, blocked numbers, or unknown caller IDs. Messages from these numbers will be ignored and automatically blocked.

I hope I have made myself clear on this matter. I am not asking for anything unreasonable. I am certainly not asking you to transfer your house, your car, or your life savings to me. All I am asking is that if you choose to contact me, you do so using a legitimate and identifiable phone number.

This is about my safety, comfort, and peace of mind.

For your information, I use a real phone number, and I believe the same courtesy should be extended to me. If, after we have met and established trust, you would like me to delete our messages and your contact information, I would be happy to respect that request.

I am actually a very kind person, friendly, easygoing, and enjoyable to spend time with. However, safety comes first.

If you still insist on using an internet number or anonymous contact method, please be prepared to be ignored and blocked. You can wait all day, all week, or until the cows come home, but you will not receive a response from me. 

My position on this matter is not negotiable.

There are plenty of other providers who may choose to accommodate anonymous inquiries. I am simply not one of them.

❌7. No-Show Policy — Automatic Block

Please do not make an appointment if you have no intention of showing up. No-shows are disrespectful, inconsiderate, and unprofessional. When someone commits to an appointment, time and effort are invested in preparing for that meeting. Schedules are adjusted, other opportunities may be declined, and preparations are made in good faith.

Don’t cancel the appointment 10 minutes before the scheduled time—unless your intestines are hanging all over the place. Lol.

Don’t make silly excuses like, “Oh, my boss called,” or “There’s a big elephant crossing the street.” Don’t pee on my leg and tell me it’s raining. Trust me, I’m not stupid. 😘

If you do a No-Show, you will be burned in hell… or suffer 10 years of bad luck. Just kidding! ✌️😂

But seriously, please don’t do it. A little courtesy and communication go a long way. If something comes up, just let me know. It takes only a few seconds to send a message, and it is always appreciated.

If your plans change, a simple message or courtesy notice is always appreciated. Life happens, and most people can understand that. What is difficult to understand is being left waiting without any communication at all.

Nobody deserves to be treated that way. As for habitual no-shows, On a serious note, kindness costs nothing. There is a saying: “If you can’t help someone, that’s okay. Just don’t hurt them.”

Everyone you meet is facing challenges you may know nothing about. Please be considerate, communicate honestly, and choose kindness whenever possible.